Hello Beautiful Goddess
We are all human and no one is perfect. We all have chapters in our lives that we would like to forget and possibly erase or go back and change it. But erasing them changes who are in this present moment.
There are definitely things in my life I would love to go back and change. Especially from those experiences I have learnt so much and grown however by going back and changing them l change who l am today. I have learnt to love who l am today. I love my life. I am very blessed and grateful for my life and what it has taught me so far.
Had a interesting conversation with one of my dear friend awhile a go and have been thinking about it. We were talking about friends from the past and how much we have grown since then and how it's funny even though have grown and not the same person as then, still are looked upon as the same person. The question then was well maybe they have changed too..... Maybe..... Maybe not..... As said some people never change and don't want to change. Good point. And that's ok. It's their choice. Change is a big inside job!
Then it was a matter of who cares. It's really none of my business. What I do is give thanks for coming into my life and showing me what it was l needed at that time in my life. Thank you for showing me more of myself and for the opportunity that has allowed me to grow and learn and be a better version of myself.
Life has so many rising opportunities and it is a choice in what you want to do with them. You can get caught up in it and go around in circles OR look at what you can learn and make your life better and a better you. I choose the second option and give thanks. One lesson I found that came up and still does, is forgiveness!
Learning to forgive others and no that does not mean you have to condone their actions and self forgiveness.
Self forgiveness takes a huge weight off your shoulders. It stops the hurt, anger, bitterness and what ever other emotions are being felt manifesting into a dis-ease and you carrying it around and effecting all other aspects of your life. I have had clients say oh but it doesn't effect me. Through conversation we go through and it becomes an "ah-ha" moment for them when they recognise the effect it is having on them and those around them. From here they move into forgiveness.
Forgiveness is now something l recognise more easily that needs to be done however there are things that come up and I am full of very raw emotions and I'm not at that forgiveness stage. It's here that I recognise with in myself that l need to sit and work more within. I don't want this person/situation holding me back, l want to learn and grow. With forgiveness amazing shifts will happen in your life!!
I give thanks for the opportunities to grow, learn and make room for the amazing people and things in my life right now!
Blessings Belle xo
"I receive great inspiration and clearer guidance to what l should be doing and where l should be going with my life. I love the encouragement support and love" ~ Karen
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