Hello Divine Goddess
There is never a need to beat yourself up. Beating yourself up is dentramental and serves no good purpose.
What is self responsiblity all about?
It is about looking at yourself to make shifts and changes that you feel no longer serve you. These are opppoutinitis for you to grow, learn and be the best version of your goddess self you can be!
This one can be a tough one. For me it was however it was life changing.
After my still born son, Isaac, my relationship had turned even more shit and I ended it. Really a blessing in disguise. I was divorced and had two shitty relationships. Yes they were assholes however in both relationships and all of them for that matter there was only one common denominator and that was ME!!
I really had decided I didn't want another shitty relationship, I would rather no relationship. I needed to work on me.
I started to ask myself how was l contributing to these relationships? What do l need to work on to ensure my next relationship was what l truly desired and was for my highest good.
One question I remember asking myself and the answer can quickly and loud and clear and rocked me. I asked why have l attracted these types of relationships? I'm a good person but l have now had two really shitty relationships and the answer was "lack of worth". I was like wow l must think low of myself then and the answer that came was YES! To be honest I was shocked and walked around for a few days shocked. Once l got over the shock I knew l had to work on this. I wanted this to shift. I wasn't after a relationship however when it came along l wanted it to be amazing.
I started researching, reading, watching YouTube, journaling, manifesting, meditating, spending time with myself and was really focused on my self development.
Self development is a core value to me and is high on my values list. Amongst all this I was grieving over the death of my baby. I had hit rock bottom and I mean the big black shit hole. To the point l didn't want to be here anymore.
However at the time I had two beautiful young children and I didn't want to do what mum did. My mum suicided when l was 17. I didn't want to leave my children. Once l hit very rock bottom it was time go up. I continued my self development on a deep honest level.
I started looking at what I contributed in the relationships. It wasn't easy but it started to make sense. Some of it l was not proud of,however this was an opportunity to look at myself and shift, let go and forgive.
Things I needed to look at:
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Blessings & Love
"I receive great inspiration and clearer guidance to what l should be doing and where l should be going with my life. I love the encouragement support and love" ~ Karen
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