Hello Gorgeous Goddess
Do you second guess yourself?
Do you miss amazing opportunities because you are too busy second guessing yourself?
Continually second guessing yourself keeps you small and dimes your light. It comes from not believing in you, your gifts, abilities and your power.
Where does it come from?
It comes from the crap people said to you as a child.
The thing is the things that you where told as a child, actually come from what they too where told as a child. It is a vicious cycle that has been passed down from generation to generation. However now you have the power to change this. Do you want to pass this on to your children?
Confidence is about believing in you, your power, your abilities and gifts. It means you will give something a go. Even though you may not succeed the first, second or third or hundredth time, you try. Confidence does not mean you give it a go and it works perfectly the first time. It means you believe in you to try.
I believe there is no such things as not succeeding, its learning. If it doesn't work the first time, look at the experience and ask yourself “what can l learn from that?”. No matter the outcome each time you will learn something new. You grow and learn, as we are meant to as humans.
When it comes to giving something a go next time, check in with you. How do you feel about it? If an old limiting belief comes up about not being able to do it, ask “where does this belief come from?”. If it comes from something someone told you then, let it go. It isn't your belief, it is theirs. Focus on your beliefs of you.
What are your beliefs of you???
Get a pen and paper
Draw a line down the middle.
On the left side, write down all the beliefs of you.
Once done, then on the right side write where did they come from. Was it a parent, sibling teacher, etc.
When done, did you find any of your own beliefs about you?
If not that is ok. When l did this many years ago, l was shocked to learn none of my beliefs about me where actually from me. They came from everyone else.
I then begun the inner journey of me and what my beliefs of me are.
Start a list of your beliefs about you. This list may take time to build, baby steps. Have fun getting to know you.
Here are some questions to get you started on your life:
Here is some of my beliefs about me:
Time to believe in you from your perspective, not others. Time to clear away beliefs about you that aren't from you.
You have got this. I believe in you!!
Blessings & Love
"I receive great inspiration and clearer guidance to what l should be doing and where l should be going with my life. I love the encouragement support and love" ~ Karen
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