Having your confidence activated doesn’t mean fear never pops up, it does.
With Confidence Activated means you have trust in yourself and your abilities. When fear is there you focus on your confidence and take leap of faith and give it a go.
With confidence activated your intuition becomes stronger and louder.
Before my confidence was activated my fears would be entertained by the gremlin. It was so loud l couldn’t hear my intuition. When my gremlin was entertained I would feel paralysed with fear. Fear had the power. I would keep small, wouldn’t share my healing work or message, worry about getting it wrong and what others thought of me and so on. I felt powerless, not good enough and not worthy. Even though deep with in me I knew I was an energy healer and had a mission to share my work and work with women to help guide and support them to transform from fear back into love.
Through my stubbornness (yes it does have great benefits) and my core value of Know Thyself, l did the inward journey. I still continue to do the inward journey. So much we can learn, grow and heal from going onwards.
The inward journey was done with trial and error. Looking at what worked and what didn’t work in activating my confidence. It took many years as it felt like I was moving through the dark, not knowing how to exactly do it.
Also the burning feeling deep with in me would not go, no matter how hard l tried to ignore it. What you resist persist.
Can you relate to this?
I am truly grateful I kept going and stumbling. It has lead me to where I am today. Having my confidence activated has change my life around. Doing this journey I have an amazing hubby, kids and a business I truly love and very passionate about. I know deep with in me this can be the same for all Goddess Healers. Having your confidence activated won’t just affect your healing business for the better, it will be beneficial for all areas of your life
I know and deep down you know too, that you are here on Earth to make a difference. To help others have a better and more enjoyable life.
Closing your eyes and feeling into your goddess self and your passion, purpose and mission here.
How does it feel?
What is coming through for you?
How does it look and feel with having your confidence activated?
What impact are you having on the world?
How can you go from where you are now to having your confidence activated and rising in your goddess healing power?
It took me soooo many years and tens of thousands of dollars and a lot debt to get my confidence activated and it didn’t need to be that way. My passion, purpose and mission is to help support and guide women to activate their confidence as Goddess Healers and be of deep transformational service 💜
With out spending tens of thousands of dollars and not take years to get there
It’s time to RISE as a Goddess Healer
Love & Gratitude
Hello Divine Goddess Healer
When confidence is low you feel stuck, unsure, unclear, procrastinate, not good enough, play small, stay hidden and there is no income
I get this. I have been there. It served no one. It didn’t serve me and l wasn’t being of service to others.
As a goddess healer you have amazing gifts and abilities within you. However with low confidence they are not being used. It is time to STOP and activate your confidence and rise as a goddess healer.
The world needs your unique healing. There are abundant amount of clients waiting for you. The thing is they don’t know about you.
You don’t need to look a certain way. You be you. Clients don’t come to you because of your fashion or how you look. They come to you for the healing transformation you provide
You don’t need another course out of not being good enough. You already have an amazing tool kit. Time to use it.
Your body doesn’t need to be a certain size or shape. It needs your love and gratitude as it is in this moment. When you love and have gratitude for your goddess body your energy vibrations are high, clients feel this and they are attracted to your energy, you feel amazing and radiate.
You don’t need to compare your goddess self to others. You are unique and amazing just as you are. You aren’t going to be like anyone else and that’s a great thing. The world needs your uniqueness
Surrender the fear of “what happens if I get it wrong?” No one knows everything. You show up, give your best and learn along the way. Focus on what you do know, because you do know a lot. Follow your intuition, not the gremlin mind. Your intuition takes you exactly where you need to be. When you rise in your confidence your intuition becomes stronger
💜 Confidence is what gives your healing work and business a solid foundation 💜
If you are ready to create your healing business, rise as a goddess healer in activating your confidence and be of deep transformational service to others then join me in a 1/2 Free call
When you book in for this free session you will receive a Confidence Oracle Reading to see what is blocking your confidence as a healer and we can begin to clear this. This will happen over a zoom call. Once you have booked a email will be sent to you with zoom call link
Book here: http://bit.ly/ActivateYourInnerConfidence
Love & Gratitude
Activating your confidence is done through falling in love with you.
When you fall in love with you, you find and see all your amazing qualities. You shift your focus from fear, lack, shame, guilt to love, gratitude, motivation, have energy and feel amazing.
Confidence is about having trust, faith and belief in yourself and your abilities.
You have so many gifts and abilities however are you tapped into them?
Activating your confidence is about clearing the crap, limiting beliefs that do not serve you and stepping into your power an shining
You weren’t born to play small and replay daily all your past hurts, pains and traumas. You where born to over come them, be empowered by them and make them work for you, rather then against you.
No matter your past you can do this. I have a past with sexual abuse, relationship/family abuse, divorce, family suicides, miscarriages, stillborn son, autoimmune dis-ease of under active thyroid and fibromyalgia. Taking a journey inwards and finding the gems, these now inspire and motivate me to make a difference. To help guide and support women to have the life they dream of become their reality. My life is better then l could have ever imagined and keeps getting better. I want the same for you. It is achievable!!!
First step is making a choice to have your dream life become a reality and then a very important step is to take ACTION.
Action is vital. It’s where change actually happens. Without you taking action, life will stay the same
First action step, book a Confidence Activation call!!!
When you book in for this free session you will receive a Confidence Oracle Reading to see what is blocking your confidence and we can begin to clear this. This will happen over a zoom call. Once you have booked a email will be sent to you with zoom call link
This work is deeply transformative and is ready for you, if you are truly ready to step into your confidence and have it activated.
If you have any questions, ask!!
Love & Gratitude
Hi Dive Goddess
Body image is passed down generation to generation. If it’s positive fantastic. However research shows that it isn’t so positive.
In today’s society we are seeing girls getting younger and younger with body image issues. It truly is sad.
Where are these young girls learning there is something wrong with their bodies? Kids do not learn from being told. They learn by what they see. Yes there is plenty of media portraying women as unrealistic. The models don’t even look that way in real life.
The way kids really learn is by what happens at home. How their parents accept or do not accept their own bodies.
Take a moment and think back to when you where a very young girl.... I highly recommend journaling your answers.
- How did your mum speak of her body or others women’s bodies?
- How did your dad speak of your mums body or others women’s bodies?
- What did you hear and see as a child about women and their bodies?
- When sitting with these questions what is coming up for you? What feelings are coming up?
My intention with these questions is for you to become aware of how our girls pick up on how we see our bodies and take it on as their own.
Therefore more journaling:
- How do you see your body?
- How do you feel about your body?
- What do you say about your body?
- Does your child copy what you do and say about your body?
I’m going to get straight to the point. If you want your daughter and even your son to have great body image and be confident in their body, no matter what you say it’s going to have minimal impact. However how you act and say about your body is going to have massive impact on them.
The change starts with you!!! When you start embracing and loving your body just as it is in this present moment and activate your goddess body confidence your children will do the same. With kids it’s monkey see, monkey do!!
Let’s start creating a generation of women who have goddess body confidence!!! You can make this happen by making the change.
If you want to make a change, feel amazing, have energy, have motivation just as your body is in this present moment, join me in our free 5 Day Confidence Activation
With this round we have a NEW Soul eBook to help, guide and support you on this journey.
Love & Gratitude
Have questions, please do ask!!!!
Hello Gorgeous Goddess
Do you second guess yourself?
Do you miss amazing opportunities because you are too busy second guessing yourself?
Continually second guessing yourself keeps you small and dimes your light. It comes from not believing in you, your gifts, abilities and your power.
Where does it come from?
It comes from the crap people said to you as a child.
The thing is the things that you where told as a child, actually come from what they too where told as a child. It is a vicious cycle that has been passed down from generation to generation. However now you have the power to change this. Do you want to pass this on to your children?
Confidence is about believing in you, your power, your abilities and gifts. It means you will give something a go. Even though you may not succeed the first, second or third or hundredth time, you try. Confidence does not mean you give it a go and it works perfectly the first time. It means you believe in you to try.
I believe there is no such things as not succeeding, its learning. If it doesn't work the first time, look at the experience and ask yourself “what can l learn from that?”. No matter the outcome each time you will learn something new. You grow and learn, as we are meant to as humans.
When it comes to giving something a go next time, check in with you. How do you feel about it? If an old limiting belief comes up about not being able to do it, ask “where does this belief come from?”. If it comes from something someone told you then, let it go. It isn't your belief, it is theirs. Focus on your beliefs of you.
What are your beliefs of you???
Get a pen and paper
Draw a line down the middle.
On the left side, write down all the beliefs of you.
Once done, then on the right side write where did they come from. Was it a parent, sibling teacher, etc.
When done, did you find any of your own beliefs about you?
If not that is ok. When l did this many years ago, l was shocked to learn none of my beliefs about me where actually from me. They came from everyone else.
I then begun the inner journey of me and what my beliefs of me are.
Start a list of your beliefs about you. This list may take time to build, baby steps. Have fun getting to know you.
Here are some questions to get you started on your life:
Here is some of my beliefs about me:
Time to believe in you from your perspective, not others. Time to clear away beliefs about you that aren't from you.
You have got this. I believe in you!!
Blessings & Love
Hello Gorgeous Goddess
Where you ever told as a child:
Firstly if you have had any of this or other things said to you l want to say “l am sorry you have had this happen. Sending you loads of love and healing”.
Even though l am sending you love and healing, there is something else l want to do for you. I want to help guide and support you in activating your confidence. I want to see you shine!!
To look good, is to FEEL good. It has nothing to do with your size or shape at all. It has everything to do with what is on the inside. How you feel about you, how you see you. Confidence is a feeling.
What you were told as a child was terrible, however it was other peoples beliefs and perceptions. Even though they said them to you, what they where doing was expressing their own insecurities and beliefs about them. It really had nothing to do with you. Being a child and not knowing any differently, you took it on as truth. Now you are an adult you can clear others beliefs from you, about you and create your own beliefs about you.
Your body size and shape does not define you. What others think about you is none of your business. It comes down to what do you think and feel about you.
In a quite place look at your body. Look at each body part and what are you grateful for that part.
Going to be vulnerable and share some of my list.
I have chunky thighs. I am grateful my legs allow me to walk
My belly sticks out and covered in stretch marks. I am grateful to carry my four children
My breasts aren't like they use to be. I am grateful they fed my babies
I am grateful that even though in my early years l abused my body (lack of exercise, crappy food) that it supports me and allows me to live.
I am grateful my nails grow like weeds and are strong.
What are you grateful that your body has and does do for you?
Then every time you look at your body, find what you are grateful for.
How you choose to see your body image is up to you. You can continue to take on others beliefs of you as your own, however this will continue to keep your confidence levels low OR you can choose to be grateful for your body and take on your OWN beliefs of your body as your truth, which will activate your confidence.
What do you choose?
Blessings & Love
Confidence is having full trust and belief in yourself and your abilities.
Lack of confidence is an old, limiting belief pattern that is no loner serving you.
Lack of confidence, low self esteem, not feeling good enough, come from other peoples beliefs that have been placed on you.
Lack of confidence can come from:
Lack of confidence affects ALL areas of your life.
It can stop you from:
Lack of confidence can leave you feeling:
Subconsciously you have taken them on limiting beliefs about yourself. However you do not have to keep them, if you choose. They can be cleared.
Give yourself permission to do the work in order for you to shine and have the life you love and truly deserve.
It is time to clear away the old limiting beliefs that are holding you can and embrace your true beliefs about you and discover what your own beliefs about you truly are.
If you are wanting to make the change and be guided and supported, then join us on the 5 Day Confidence Activation HERE
Blessings & Love
When we think of love we think of the high vibes of it all. When we are consciously connected with love it feels amazing and everything in life is amazing, even when there are bumps in the road. Life is flowing and in the right direction.
When it comes to self love it appears to bring up the low vibrations. Emotions and feelings of resistance, guilt, fear and it isn't for me. And the biggest one is “oh l don't have time for that”. I get that a LOT.
Here is the thing we all have the same amount of time, except for those taking their last breath.
Self Love brings up all these low vibrations and that is ok, but what is important is what you do with them. If you ignore them and push them back down, they don't go anywhere but they fester.
Facing them takes courage. Having courage doesn't mean there is a absence fear, because it is there. Having courage is still facing it even with fear is there.
The journey with self love is working through the shadows, surrendering them and healing and then doing regular self love practises. These are our 4 pillars of self love.
We have the 4 pillars because we are not about putting a band aid on “stuff” and hoping it will be better because it won't be. We are here to make a difference and make it a permanent difference. This isn't a quick fix, but what is in life? By that l mean a quick permanent fix that will shift your life to a life you truly love and deserve.
The 4 Pillars of Self Love
Pillar 1 ~ Shadow Work
This is the least rosie part of the self love journey however it is vital to make the big, deep transformations in your life. Here we go into your shadow. We all have a shadow aspect of self. It is where we hide things we don't want others to see or know about ourselves and we even hide things from ourselves. Yes it can be scary and oh so messy however it is a journey worth taking because in our shadow are the most amazing gems. Gems that light us up, empower us and raise our vibrations.
Here we go into past beliefs and beliefs that have been placed on us for centuries, especially through the patriarchal world.
Time to uncover our hidden gems!!
Pillar 2 ~ Surrender
Once you become aware of what is in your shadows - the fears and beliefs, that no longer serve you it is time to surrender them, let them go. Surrendering is not about giving up. It has nothing to do with this. It is about surrendering what no longer serves you.
Do you think and talk about things you want in your life? Things like more money, amazing partner, amazing career or business, amazing friends, a new home or a great car.
My question to you is, if you want these things how can they come into your life (you do deserve them) but how can they come in if there is no room? I don't just mean physically, i mean energetically.
How much room is there in your energy?
What is in your energy at this present moment?
Is there fears, guilt, resentment, anger, hurt, pains, stickiness, jealousy, etc?
If so your energy is heavy and in low vibration. Be honest with your answers. This is not about beating yourself up as this feeds those low vibes. This is about being honest with yourself and the more honest you are with yourself the more you will be able to make changes in your life and step into high vibrations, feel amazing and have the life you want, love and deserve.
Surrender is about letting go of these low vibrations, they do not serve you. Continuing to carrying them around with you eventually manifest physically in your body causing dis-ease.
It is time to surrender to create room with in you to have the all the things in your life that is for your highest good. We are not here on Mother Earth to suffer. We are here to grow, learn, heal from our past hurt, pains and traumas.
Pillar 3 ~ Healing
Here in this pillar we heal. Healing is about raising your energy vibrations from low vibes to high vibes. Remember the highest vibe is LOVE!!! Love is also our true essence. What do l mean by this? I mean we are spiritual beings having a human experience. As spiritual beings our true essences is LOVE. We are hear to come back to our true essence.
It is time to heal from the past of this life time and past lives and our ancestors. You have the ability to activate your inner healer and heal.
The amazing bonus of healing yourself is your healing the world. This is how make changes in the world, by taking the journey with in
Pillar 4 ~ Self Love Practises & Rituals
Here we do the regular self love practises and scheduling.
Scheduling is a must. Why? If we don't schedule in our self love rituals then they don't get done and then left feeling low, lacking energy and in that low vibe funk.
This is about making the commitment to yourself and you are very much worth the commitment
We have created many rituals that only require 5-10 minutes. Some can be even done in less time or can take longer. Self love is about making time for you, connecting with your divine goddess self and the divine.
We created them to be short so you can easily fit them into your daily life and also create more time to do deeper self love rituals.
These self love pillars have been created to work through the low vibe crap and back into your high vibe of love. By going through this journey once does not mean that once you are done, thats it. When we heal “stuff” you thought was healed years ago may come up again. Why does “stuff” come back up? Because you have grown and learnt and its come back up as a rising opportunity for you to heal on a deeper level. I also love to stop and take a moment when this happens to celebrate. I celebrate because at times it doesn't always feeling like I'm growing and learning, actually feels like its two steps froward then ten steps backwards. Do you know that feeling?
Therefore this rising opportunity is letting me know I've made some great progress and after celebrating l go back to pillar one and do the self love journey again.
The journey with self love isn't always rosie, it brings crap up to the surface and yes it is a good thing. No one likes crap brewing under the carpet, it never leads to anything good.
However it is a journey worth taking because the transformations are phenomenal in all aspects of your life.
You have a choice to take a path of always having crap brewing under your carpet (which by the way will explode one day and will be even more messier then taking the self love journey) or you can take your courage (because you are more courages then you give yourself credit) and go down the self love journey.
It is time to start moving back into your true essence of love and having the life you want and love and deserve!!!
I believe in you 110% Divine Goddess
You can do this!
You are SO worth it
You are amazing
You are loved
You are love
You are loveable in every way
Blessings & Love
PS If you want to take this self love journey with extra love and support from myself, my amazing hubby Dave and our amazing Sisterhood in a loving sacred space, then join us in the Awakening Spiritual Tribe.
Self love daily practises fill your cup up. It gives you energy, while feeling grounded and centred.
Self love allows for your creative juices to open up and flow
Your inner voice, intuition, becomes louder and louder with self love practises.
When this happens you are consciously connected to your inner GPS for your life.
Decisions can be made with ease when you follow your intuition.
Your intuition will always take you where you need to be. Even when your mind and others say the opposite. It is your intuition that is the key. The key to unlocking your divine conscious life.
When you practise regular self love, your energy increases, allowing you to get more done while being present and feeling amazing at the same time.
Yes you will get more done even though time is taken to do self love practises.
Yes you hear about self love every where these days and that is fantastic. More the better.
Self love is NOT a fad, it’s a way of life!!
It is a necessity
What stops you from regular self love practises???
This list doesn’t actually stop you, YOU do
Yes these are obstacles however when you choose and decide to make a change.
Only you can give yourself permission. No one can do it for you. Time to stop waiting for someone to give you permission.
Time to stop hiding and time to make you a priority.
Yes l can hear your thoughts of
I’m going to be really transparent and call BS on it all
Every person has the same amount of time in a day, except those that take their last breath.
It is a choice where and how you use your time.
I totally get it can be challenging. We are a blended family with 6 kids. 5 are from previous marriages and we have 50/50 care and we have a very energetic 2 year old. Most days are full on and seem to running behind. However what I have learnt so far is that regular self love practises are making the world of difference. When my amazing hubby, Dave, gets home I am more present, relaxed and feel great about myself. It truly has been amazing. Hence why we are now have self love support, guidance in our Awakening Spiritual Tribe. Through holding Wellness Circle monthly via zoom, we really felt the lack of self love and how it was impacting our goddess members and wanted to be of service and creating a change for them while being supported and guided.
We offer daily post to work through and embrace self love practises. We offer weekly a 10 minute self love ritual. We keep it simple so it’s doable however powerful and affective.
Yes incorporating self love practises takes adjustment and flexibility however it is worth it and feeling very blessed to guide and support women in their self love practises.
It is worth feeling:
Don’t you think?
What others think of you is none of your business. It’s is their business.
What they say about you is their inner reflection of their internal life. They are projecting.
Would you take someone else’s snotty tissue and carry it around everywhere with you???
I’m guessing, NO!
Well then why take that snotty tissue on energetically?
When you take on their judgements and take their “stuff” personally you are carrying their snotty tissue.
Yes it takes time away from others. HOWEVER when you practise self love regularly and around loved ones you are:
It is one thing to around a loved one and another to be present with them. You can be around loved ones and be else where emotionally and mentally.
What are you thinking of when you are around them?
With self love practises you become more present in the present moment and thinking about what the are saying and what is actually happening right there and then.
Think about this.....
Have you been around someone and your talking but they aren’t listening?
Are you having to repeat what you are saying because they didn’t hear?
The person is there physically however emotionally and mentally else where.
How does this feel when this happens to you???
Not the best feeling. However if your cup isn’t full and there is no self love practises then this is what you are to others.
Is this how you want to show up for others???
How does it feel to pour your heart out to someone and they are emotionally and mentally else where?
Doesn’t feel great, hey?
How many times have you done this to someone???
This is isn’t about making you feel like crap or guilty, my intention is to help you become consciously aware of this.
Being consciously aware allows for you to make a change and also one of the amazing benefits of regular self love practises.
With self love practises you begin to have quality time with loved ones and allows you to have a:
I get this isn’t an easy thing to start. I am guilty of the above. I seem to run very high energy and then to the opposite and crash for days and in physical pain. Over the many years I have burned my adrenals which lead to adrenal fatigue and then autoimmune disease, under active thyroid and fibromyalgia.
However since doing regular self love practises I am finding that middle ground and feeling amazing for it and blown away at how simple self love rituals are having a huge approve affect on my life and family’s and business.
I am truly blessed to have Dave. He has and always strongly encouraging me to rest, to fill my cup up. I am stubborn and although this has worked for me wonderfully, it has also been a down fall and when it’s come to self love in the past been a huge down fall.
I got sick and tired of being in pain and crashing for days on end and needing to be in bed to rest. Yes the foods I eat has an impact however self love practises have had a bigger, massive affect on my energy levels and reducing my body pain and allowing my relationship to go even deeper.
And it has lead me to be of even more service to the Goddesses in our Awakening Spiritual Tribe and the Intuitive Goddess Academy members.
In the Awakening Spiritual Tribe we have daily posts to guide and support the Goddesses. We have a monthly Wellness Circle on zoom to go deeper into our selves and inspire each other, twice a month Dave and l do card readings to give deeper insight and guidance on each ones journey to where they are at. There are weekly little 5-10 minute easy but profound self love rituals. We have a zoom reflection Call where you ask questions and share. This is in a sacred fb group. The Sisterhood is priceless. There is abundant amount of love, support and wisdom. Yes Dave is apart of this as he is deeply connected to the Divine Feminine and adds a massive amount of insight and value
We have the Self~Love 5 day Journey. Yes it’s like a challenge.
Self~Love 5 Day Journey
Intention of this Self~Love 5 Day Journey
For women to become aware of:
- their mindset and beliefs around self~love
- surrender mindset and beliefs that no longer serve them
- connect and understand the high importance of self~love
- start doing regular self~love practises
This journey isn't a quick fix as self~love practises are for life. This journey is about supporting and guiding you to get started!!! To become consciously aware of any limiting beliefs/mindset on self~love and surrendering them and start regular self~love practises.
Once you make a habit of self~love practises, watch how your life begins to transform in ways that at this stage seem impossible. Watch the impossibles become possible!!!
Begin to notice as your life transform to joy, happiness, feeling grounded, abundant just by regular self~love practises...
What will we be doing is:
- Will be shadow work!! Asking questions to did deep to find the gems with in
- Surrendering old beliefs and mindsets
- Invocation to open up to Self~Love
- Self~Love Practises that are simple and affective and a Self~Love Ritual
Begins Monday 11th March 2019 however sign up and to find out when the next one is.
More information and to to sign up visit HERE
We look forward to connecting with you and supporting you on your self love journey
Blessings & Love
"I receive great inspiration and clearer guidance to what l should be doing and where l should be going with my life. I love the encouragement support and love" ~ Karen
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